This one’s about the difference between being alive and actually living.

How you can follow the path, do everything right, build a life that looks fine from the outside and still feel like something is missing. Like your life isn’t really yours.

To some degree, everything is in relationship.

But when it comes to personal relationships, what we are really talking about is closeness. Proximity. How much space exists between you and somebody else, and how much of that space is being created by what you are unwilling to reveal.

In this episode I talk about the distance we create in relationships, how that d...

There’s a good chance that who you think you are isn’t actually who you are.

Most of us build this identity from selective experiences and then just stick to it. We pick a version of ourselves that makes sense and say “this is me” and then we try to be consistent with that.

But it’s not real. You’re not just one thing. You’re not just a good person or a bad pers...

We all want purpose. We all want something that feels meaningful.

But not everyone has that thing. And when you don’t, it can feel like something is wrong with you. Like you’re missing something that everyone else seems to have.

I’ve spent a lot of time in that space. Not really knowing what I wanted to do, trying different things, not connecting with anything d...