MenAlive

I have been helping improve the mental, emotional, and relational health of men for more than fifty years. My passion to improve men’s health is personal as well as professional. It began for me when I was five years old and my mid-life father took an overdose of sleeping pills after he had become increasingly depressed because he couldn’t make a living to support his fa...

This is a picture of us a few years ago with a gathering of friends. Since then, I’ve gotten more gray in my hair. Carlin is even more beautiful. We celebrated Carlin’s 88th birthday on July 24th with a wonderful celebration in our community in Willits, California. I will be 83 in December.

At this time of life, Carlin and I reflect on what we’ve l...

I believe it is safe to say that everyone in the world has an interest in sex and love. My interest is both personal and professional. When people visit my website, MenAlive, they are greeted by my welcome video, “Confessions of a Twice-Divorced Marriage Counselor.” Though I had been helping...

Over the last fifty-plus years I have become a leader in the field of Gender-Specific Medicine and Men’s Health. After graduating from U.C. Santa Barbara in 1965, I was awarded a four-year full-tuition fellowship to U.C. San Francisco Medical School, but I transferred out after my first semester. I felt the medical education was elitist and too limited for the kind of c...