There’s no worse feeling than the one you get after you’ve just had an epic, all-out, tongue lashing, blowout fight. No matter the reason, and whether it’s with your child, your spouse, your sibling, or your friend—serious disagreements leave a sickening feeling that can last for days.

As a teenager, I remember one particular battle that neither my parents or I wanted to lose. It was a fierce face-off over a curfew that I felt was unfair and they felt was more than generous. The blowout ended in me screaming and my mom crying. The mood in our home afterward was overcast and I don’t remember exactly when or how we got back to normal, but we did.

Since then, I’ve learned some interesting life lessons, as my parents once promised—you’ll understand when you have kids of your own. Now with a family of my own, I get it. Buttons get pushed, harsh words are spoken, and blowout fights happen. So how do you get back to good quickly? Here are some valuable lessons I’ve learned with my own children that can easily be applied to any argument.

So You Had a Blowout Fight? 6 Ways To Get Back to Good

1. Let it rest.

So things got heated. Maybe you just had a beef over who gets grandma’s heirloom sideboard, or maybe a wet towel got left on the floor again and it’s not really even about the towel but now you’re holding a smoking gun.

We all say things in the moment that we don’t really mean and we all do things in the moment that we wish we could take back. It’s important to understand that the person on the other side of that smoking gun has said or done the same. Lately, my eight-year-old has been going through a weird phase. He’s testing his boundaries and quite frankly pushing me over the edge. A few days ago I got fed up and exploded. He exploded. It was like putting two eggs together in the microwave.

The Result: We’re both fuming.

Damage Control: Let it rest.

There’s a rule in cooking that all chefs follow: you gotta give sizzling meat time to rest. You can’t just take a steak off the grill and cut right into it; your steak will be better if you let it rest. The same goes for a blowout fight. After the flames, you gotta give it time to rest. Not too much time (the reason some relationships are greatly damaged), but a sufficient amount of time where each party can cool off and and start thinking logically.

2. Determine the trigger.

While you’re letting it rest, it’s important to determine the trigger of your argument. Are you upset about the fact that a damp towel was left on the ground, or is the heart of the matter that you’ve been feeling overwhelmed and could use a little more help around the house?

No matter who the fight is with, step back and look for the trigger. What is the disagreement really about? Once you determine the trigger, you’re one ginormous step closer to a resolution. Figuring out what’s at the heart of the fight leads to empathy, understanding, and step number three, communication.

3. Be the first to speak.

 My kids would rather volunteer for toilet cleaning duty than apologize to one another. One day I came downstairs to find my youngest two wailing on each other and I put them on two chairs facing each other and told them they couldn’t get down until they each apologized.

Each of them sat, arms crossed, silent for over an hour.

They missed storytime; they missed the ice cream truck.

Don’t be a silly child. If you want to put out the flames before they consume the whole house, you have to be the first one to speak. That may mean saying I’m sorry, or just Hey, can we talk?

Don’t miss the ice cream truck because you were too stubborn to talk.

4. Admit mistakes.

It’s hard to admit when you’re wrong, but in most epic battles, each side has done something wrong. Rarely is a wrongdoing one-sided. The very best way to move past a fight and get on with the good stuff of life is to drop your guard and admit your mistake.

After battling over my son’s piano lesson, I came down hard with a crushing mallet: I’m taking $20 out of your bank to cover the lesson that you missed because you were throwing a fit! And he parried back with a swift sword to the gut: I never even wanted to take piano! I hate you for making me!

After cooling off and realizing that he had just got home from a busy testing day at school, was hungry and lashing out at me, I went into his room, asked if we could talk, and told him frankly that I hadn’t handled the situation very well.

Once we got talking, we both admitted what we’d done and said some things we didn’t mean and the air immediately felt better.

5. What do we each want?

A big part of resolving any conflict is figuring out what each party wants. If I’m talking about my son and piano lessons, he wants to quit piano and I want him to continue.

If you’re talking about a spousal disagreement, try narrowing down what each partner wants. When my dad’s siblings got together to disperse my grandparent’s estate, in order to avoid a huge blow-up, they first met to discuss what each person wanted from the estate. Each person was heard and if there was a conflict, a compromise was made.

6. How can we compromise?

Which leads to the last step in resolving any blowout fight—compromise. Once you’ve either vocally or logically determined what each party wants, you can start to work on a compromise.

For my son and the piano lesson blowout, I’m happy to report we came to an agreement. We decided that once he could open an agreed-upon music book and play any given page confidently, then he could quit taking piano lessons. This gave him an incentive to work hard and I came away feeling like a winner too.

We wouldn’t be human if we didn’t have disagreements from time to time. They happen with coworkers, neighbors, family, and even friends. Be the first to apply these six strategies and get back to good.

Because life is too short to waste precious years, weeks, days, or even minutes of your life harboring ill feelings. Don’t miss out on the ice cream trucks of life. Cool your jets, talk it out, and find a compromise. Because life has so many delicious Firecracker Pops and Fat Boys in store.

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It’s a New Year! I know the past couple years have been doozies, but one thing I’ve learned is if you can’t control what goes on around you.

You can, however, control YOU! That’s why 2022 is the best year ever for YOU! I have a goal to read 22 books this year and I know it’s going to happen! Whether your goals or little or BIG, it helps to have the right tools and product to encourage your growth. Maybe it’s the right work out gear to get active, decor to refresh your home, or a fun family game to support more quality family time, Zulily has your back. 

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I’ve rounded up 12 different products, at excellent price points, that will help you move into 2022 with a little hop in your step. 

Leopard leggings: I mean, if you’re going to set those fitness goals, you better look the part! These are not only practical and comfortable, but that subtle leopard print is right on point! This is a great brand of leggings that will even stay up when you’re doing squats!

Lounge set:  Self-care a goal of yours? Get comfy with this darling matching lounge set. Wear it to bed or to run errands!

Anne of Green Gables: To go with that comfy lounge set, you surely need a good book. Reread a classic like this one. It also looks gorgeous on your bookshelf with a cover unlike any others!

Jewelry organizer: Getting organized is top on the list for many of us! Sometimes the simplest areas are the most difficult to find a system for. I love this organizer because it’s simple and low profile. You can close it up and even make it portable!

Floral shower curtain: Refreshing your home? Shower curtains often need a replacement and I’m loving the energy on this one. Bright, colorful and happy – just how I want to feel each morning!

Morning Mantras cards Are affirmations something you do? I’ve done them with a few of my kids and I think there’s a lot of power in them. These cards will help you get started.

My Family Cookbook:  Another forgotten area to organize for me is my recipe books! I love this idea because not only does it help you get your stuff together, it’s also a keepsake for years to come. Combine all your favorite family recipes in one book!

Subtle Cheetah Comforter set: One of my personal goals this year is to FINALLY finish decorating my daughter’s room! I am in love with this subtle cheetah print and think it would be perfect in a tween room (or any room at that!).

Goals Sticky Pad: No better way to remind and motivate yourself than these sticky notes! Aren’t they fun? I got some for my tweens to put up in their locker too!

Spice organizer: Have you taken a look at that spice drawer recently? It need helps! This organizer will help AND looks so pretty!

Hyacinth basket: Creating a more calming home is easy with pretty decor like this basket! Use it on the coffee table to store the remotes and a candle, or place it in the guest bathroom to display all the toiletries. This is gorgeous and at the right price!

Reusable storage bags: Eating healthy is easier when you prepare snacks ahead of time. These reusable storage bags are perfect for carrying around your baby carrots or other healthy snacks. Plus, they are easy to clean, better for the environment, and save you money in the long run. 

Great finds, right? And all at prices that will make you smile too!
Here’s to a new year, and a better YOU!
Welcome, 2022!

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It’s a brand new year and a fresh slate. And while I have some lofty goals to tone up for an upcoming Hawaii trip and for an epic summer on the lake, right now it is freezing here in Idaho which makes it hard to want to leave the house.

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Banana Nut muffins are a little taste of my childhood.

Spoil your family with a delicious breakfast muffin or lunch time snack and they’ll be adding these to their memory banks, too!

One of my ‘secret’ recipes that I often impress overnight guests with is my homemade {sorta} banana muffin recipe. Beats any ‘box’ out there by a long shot and is basically just as easy.

Wanna know the secret ingredient? Bisquick. Bisquick is the secret. Grab your box and let’s make some muffins!

Ingredients

Instructions

Ready to serve…

Once you try these amazing banana nut muffins (with our favorite secret ingredient!) you won’t go back! Give them a try and let us know what you think!

FYI – Ripe bananas freeze well.  Mash, adding 1 T lemon juice for each cup of banana to prevent them from darkening.  For this recipe, freeze in 2 cup quantities

Why not surprise your Valentine with a Breakfast muffin in Bed?! He’ll love you for it.

Here are a couple of other ideas you might like, for a delicious breakfast for your loved one:

25 Pancake Recipes To Get You Out Of Bed In The Morning

Amazing Steel Cut Oats You’ll Love For Breakfast

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Happy New Year!

I love the energy associated with this time of year.  One thing I love is to try new hairstyles, so today I’m showing you how to create retro-inspired waves!  This is such a classy style that is perfect for adding a little bit extra to any look.  Maybe you will want to add it to your new year!

I used a one-inch curling iron to create my waves.  You could also use a wand if you wanted.  The video below will take you through step by step.  It is important that you pin the curls and let them set before you brush them out to make the waves!  Be gentle when brushing them.  The curl pattern should naturally start to show up. Using flat clips will also make a big difference in your waves.  They will help shape and flatten the curls into the correct form.  Lightly hairspray before you remove the clips.

Once you have created the waves, you have a lot of options! I show three of my favorites in the video below, but play around and put your own spin on it!  I show an option for wearing the rest of your hair down and curled, in a bun, and also in a braid.  These retro-inspired waves work for any length of hair.  If you have short hair, mainly focus on the front wave section, and the rest can be worn down.

I hope you enjoy experimenting with these retro-inspired waves!  As always, I’d love to see your styles if you try them.  So send us your pics, or tag us so we can see! Adding some new hairstyles to your routine may add some fun to your new year.  I wish you all the best in 2017 and hope it is your best year yet! XO,

For even more ideas for beautiful up-dos, check out some of these great ideas:

How to Achieve the Perfect Romantic Updo for Valentine’s Day

14 Simply Gorgeous Hair Tutorials for Weddings, Prom, & Fancy Affairs

Mixed Braid Bun – Beautiful Updo

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25 pancake recipes

 Saturday morning is the best time at our house for a relaxed sit down breakfast, how about at your house? And of course you can’t go wrong with pancakes.  Especially these pancakes.  Hope you’re not on a diet!

25 pancake recipes

1. Can these even be for real? These Cinnamon Roll Pancakes look amazing!

2. Buffet Pancake Dippers would be the perfect breakfast for us bacon lovers!

3. How about this for a birthday breakfast?  Funfetti Cake Batter Pancakes. YUM!

4.  No need for syrup here! These Churro Pancakes should get you going in the morning!

5. You can’t beat how easy this is! 2 ingredient Chocolate Pancakes. 

6. The perfect pancake for Valentine’s day!  Heart Shaped Pancakes.

7. This is well named, Blueberry Pancakes of your Dreams.

8. Who says you can’t eat dessert for breakfast?  These Strawberries and Cream Pancakes look divine!

9. Pumpkin pancakes, perfect for your halloween breakfast!

10. Yep this would be a hit with the kids! Banana chocolate chip pancakes.

 11. Don’t these s’mores pancakes look amazing?

12.  Big Apple Pancakes look great when you’re feeding a crowd!

 13. Nutella Mini Pancake Kabobs.  Kids would love this one!

 14. Gingerbread pancakes would be the perfect Christmas morning tradition.

15. Another great crowd pleasure is this Overnight Pancake Casserole.

16. Carrot Cake Pancakes. I love the cake, will probably love the pancakes too!

17. Mini Chocolate Chip Pancake Muffins are great for breakfast on the go!

18. These Apple Pie Pancakes look divine!

19. Prepare to be amazed.  These Cinnamon Bun Pancakes are perfection!

20. Oreo Cookie Pancakes would be a hit at our house!

21. A full fledged meal all in one, this Silver Dollar Sliders is a winner!

22. A pineapple upside-down cake meets breakfast in this Gluten-Free Pineapple Upside-Down Pancake!

 23. These Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip Pancakes give you some great protein while still tasting delicious!

 24. Doughnut pancakes with doughnut glaze syrup are the perfect celebration food!

25. And of course, one last one to ruin the diet, how about the Boston Creme Pie Pancakes? These look pretty amazing!

 My husband and kids already want to try several of these.  Which should we try first?

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Whether it’s after school or on the weekends, we’re always on the lookout at this house for some easy and healthy snacks for kids. How about you?  Here are 40 amazing ideas that should help us all out!  I know my kids are seriously going to drool over these ideas.

Healthy Snacks for Kids that Everyone Will Love

1.  Fruit Kabobs.  A great healthy snack, that is simply irresistible!

2.  Frozen Yogurt Pops! Those look yummy enough for me to eat!

3. Apple and Grape Car Snacks.  I can pretty much guarantee this snack will be eaten! So fun!

4. Butterfly Snack Bags. These will fly off the cookie sheet they will be so popular!

5 – 7. 3 Great Easy On the Go Snack Mix Recipes. Includes tips on how to prepackage them!

8.  No-Bake Energy Bites. Super healthy and convenient! Try adding some yummy protein powder for bonus nutrition.

9.  Easy Apple Chips.  Love how simple this healthy snack for kids is.

 10. Did you know it is so easy to make your own Fruit Leather?  I’ve got to make this for the kids! They will love it!

*Bonus Mom-pick: This kids protein drink. My kids love the taste and they always ask for the “special chocolate milk.” Plus, look at all those nutrients!

 11.  Frozen Chocolate Bananas.  Takes a little time to freeze it, so plan ahead, but still super easy!

12. Here’s a great go-to Simple, Delicious, Fruit Dip that will for sure help your kids get their daily fruit in!

13.  Healthy Frozen Banana Treat.  This one blew my mind.  I like to add a scoop of this protein powder to get an even better health boost!

 14.  Breakfast Cookies.  Sounds like a great start to the day!

15. A guide to making the snacks not only healthy but adorable.  Check out the Easy Apple Turtles here.

16.  Witches Brooms.  2 ingredients, String Cheese and Pretzel sticks.  LOVE IT!

 17.  Sour Patch Grapes.  Just add grapes and jello powder make for an awesome snack! My kids LOVE these grapes!

18.  Easy and Delicious Coconut Oil Popcorn.  The coconut oil adds a bit of sweetness and nutrition!

19.  Homemade Frozen Yogurt Raspberries.  Yum! Super easy to make and takes no time at all!  Can’t wait until it’s raspberry season!

 20.  Frozen Yogurt Dots. Super cute and colorful!

 21. Fruit cones.  Looks like pretty much the perfect camping snack for kids and adults!

22.  Happy Toast.  Great for a good laugh as well as great nutrition!

 23.  Homemade Gluten Free Goldfish and Cheez-it Crackers.  Awesome step by step instructions!

24.  Mini Zucchini Muffins. A great way to use up all those zucchinis from the garden!

25.  Apple Teeth. Perfect after a preschool lesson about apples or even after learning about the dentist!

26. Mini Fruit Pizzas This version is a quick no-bake variety that is sure to please kids and adults alike.

27.  Homemade Creamy Pudding Pops.  Just a few ingredients and you’ve got a cheap knockoff Creamies dessert. Perfect for me because I’m a huge fan of Creamies!

28.  My kids always love it when I make a smoothie.  It’s a great way to sneak in some fruit and even some protein. Protein Smoothie for Kids looks delicious to kids. And for moms…you’ll feel like you’re cheating with this “grownup” shake, but it’s actually crazy-healthy!

29. Grinch Kabobs.  I think my kids would eat these any time of year!

30.  Great lunchbox treat! S’more Snack Mix.  You just can’t go wrong with these ingredients!

31.  These are a super creative way to celebrate Halloween! Mini Pumpkin Quesadillas.  Perfect for a Halloween lunch or an anyday lunch!

32.  This Lunchmeat and Cheese Roll Up is perfect for a great snack without the bread!

33.  UFO Apple Snacks is simple to make! Guaranteed to be a hit after school!

 34.  Even the kids get in on the action here!  These Fruit Trains are amazingly adorable!

35.  Monster Mix! Great way to use up the cereal!  Perfect for snacks at the park!

36. I love feeding my kids muffins!  Super healthy and they are bound to get filled up!  Try these Apple Oatmeal Muffins. They sound amazing!

37. Tree Snack for Kids.  Perfect for preschoolers who are learning their letters!

38.  Sourdough Pretzel Bites.  Great way to avoid the processed snacks from the store!

 39.  LEGO Snacks for kids. Perfect for the LEGO party your kids are begging to have!

40.  Homemade Healthy Fruit Snacks.  A great healthy idea and I can’t believe how easy it looks to make!

What’s a favorite snack at your house?

Bonus: I’m loving this Easy Way to Save $ on Snacks for Kids! You might too! The perfect solution for those days when the kids need a snack but you are swamped!

My favorite late-night snack? A glass of this –tastes just like vanilla cake (but it’s sneaky-healthy!)

For more snack ideas, check out our Pinterest Board, Snack & Salad Recipes.

Check out this round up of Slow Cooker Meals! 

These Sandwiches are way too fun!

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Waking up to January 1st is like opening a brand new notebook with 365 fresh blank pages before you. This is your year to really do something! Here are 23 noble resolutions to focus on this year to fill your “notebook” with beautiful images and meaningful notes.

23 New Year’s Resolutions That Can Make You a Better Person

1. Start meditating 5 minutes each day.

Meditation has been around thousands of years and is a way that effective people relax, harness life’s energy force, and come to realizations. Meditation can be good for you too!

Start by taking five quiet minutes of your day to sit or lie comfortably. Close your eyes (but don’t go to sleep) and breathe naturally. Focus on the air filling your nose and chest and pay attention as you exhale. Quiet your mind and let your body just feel the moment. You’ll be amazed at how centered you feel after.

2. Learn a new skill or hobby.

The world is full of endless things to learn. Become a better person by trying your hand at a new skill or hobby. Try cake decorating, photography, coding, entrepreneurship, or learn a musical instrument. All of these skills will make you a more interesting and diverse person.

3. Do something scary.

It can be so warm and cozy in our comfort zone, but you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take (Wayne Gretzky).

This year, do something that scares you, like ask for that raise or go for that promotion. Make a bold move you normally wouldn’t. Wear red lipstick or try out for a play. Start that small business you’ve been talking about for years. Take that little idea that’s been whispering in the back of your mind and give it a voice.

4. Plan a trip.

Most of us just don’t travel enough. Life is for enjoying all of the incredible places on this earth! Here are some good places to start.

5. Eat fruits and veggies at every meal.

Want to know the one thing my pediatrician recommends for my kids at every well-check? Eat more fruits and veggies. Same goes for adults—no matter how many we are currently eating, we could always eat more. Plant-based lifestyles are gaining some serious momentum and here are some good tips to get your kids eating more fresh fruits and vegetables, too!

6. Exercise 5 days a week.

Who cares what you look like doing it, just move in whatever way you can! The American Heart Association recommends getting at least 30 minutes of moderate aerobic activity at least 5 days a week for a total of 150 minutes.

As my girlfriend would say, run like Channing Tatum is waiting for you at the finish line.

7. Read a book from this list.

Reading not only improves your vocabulary, cognitive reasoning, and your memory, it can make you a better person too! Reading gives you something to talk about in social situations, it molds you into an intellectual, and makes life interesting.

If you read one book a month, from this list, you’ll be a better person for it.

8. Give up 1 hour of TV and devote it to your dream.

I know, I know the last thing you want to do come 9 ‘o clock at night when the kids are finally down is start writing that novel or build a prototype for that cool new product you’ve been imagining. What you really want to do is turn on Netflix and let your brain check out for a good hour.

But if you just gave up 1 hour of TV time per night over the course of the year, you’d have 365 extra hours to devote to your dream. That’s a total of 15 entire days! That is a heck of a lot of time to make a dream come true.

9. Spend 15 minutes of quality time with each child each day.

They crave it, they deserve it. This year, focus on spending at least 15 minutes of one-on-one time with each of your children a day. This could mean playing Go Fish together or setting up a LEGO structure. If your kids are grown, give them a call, shoot them a text, or write them an email.

10. Ditch your phone while driving.

Distracted driving is the plague of our modern society. Over 300,000 injuries occur each year from texting while driving. This year, take a pledge to ditch your phone when you’re behind the wheel. It can wait. 

11. Give your phone a bedtime.

Along the same lines, smart phones, like kids, should have a bedtime. Kids and adults who take their phones to bed with them stay awake much longer than is healthy and miss out on a calming bedtime routine. Try giving your family’s phones a bedtime and see what a difference it makes.

12. Decrease stress.

This year, don’t let stress get the best of you. Learn not to sweat the small stuff that you can’t control. Stress causes irritability, hair loss, and high blood pressure. I’m sure your family wants you around for a long time, so do yoga, go for a run, or hit the hiking trails to dissolve stress whenever you can.

(Photo credit: Cristi Dame)

13. Increase positivity.

Positive people are happier, more content, and wonderful to be around. Increase your positivity this year and become a better person by focusing on the good things in your life. Be happy for other’s successes, be grateful for the little things like stars in the night sky. Realize that when difficult things happen, they will always get better and that life is what you make of it.

14. Plan 12 dates a year with your spouse.

Get closer to your significant other this year by going on at least one planned date a month. A friend of mine does a smart thing and books a regular babysitter for the third Saturday of every month for the entire year. This way, her and her husband have no excuse not to go and they’ve actually had time to plan a whole year of dates. They’ve gone to the shooting range, the natural hot springs, golfing, and even in a hot air balloon!

Here are some other great date ideas you could plan out.

15. Organize all important documents.

If your documents look like mine, they’re all in a jumble in one particular drawer. There are tax forms mixed in with lawn mower manuals and everything is willy-nilly.

It’s a smart idea to organize all of those important documents once and for all. File them in a system like this one, keep them in a safe, or find a system that works for you. But make sure to tell someone like a family member or close friend about your system, just in case of emergencies.

16. Have a will.

We certainly don’t like to think about it, and maybe that’s why so many people don’t have a will, but if you don’t have one, this is the year to get one.

There are plenty of online options to make your own will, but getting a little legal help is always your best bet and fairly inexpensive too.

17. Accomplish more in a day.

Do you ever look back at your day and marvel at how busy you were but wonder what exactly you got done? Accomplish more in your day with the help of one little notebook. Here’s how!

18. Declutter your life.

January is the perfect time to let go of clutter and get organized. Start by donating or throwing away those extraneous “stuff” that doesn’t spark joy. Take it room by room until you’re left with the bare bones of what you need and what you love.

19. Make a new friend.

You are never too old to make a new friend. This year, focus on meeting new people and making new friends. You never know who is out there and who might make your life better just by knowing them.

20. Work your way out of debt.

Test out the Dave Ramsey debt snowball method to work your way out of burdensome debt. Start by paying off your smallest debts first—Macy’s credit card, bank credit card, etc. Then focus on medium debts like paying off your automobile and student loan debts. When those debts are taken care of, you can focus on larger debts like your home mortgage.

Obviously debt won’t be eliminated in just one year, but you’ll be a whole lot closer.

21. Become a better cook.

Cooking is a challenging and gratifying endeavor. Make it a resolution this year to become a better cook. If you’re a beginner, start at the beginning with simple cookbooks and recipes like our Easy Peasy series. If you’ve already got mad cooking skills, challenge yourself by improving your knife skills or working through a Julia Child cookbook. Wherever you’re at, improve upon it!

22. Become more self-reliant.

I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but we rely a whole lot on technology these days. Microwaves to cook for us, if we need eggs, we head to the nearest grocery store, and Amazon delivers our diapers to our front door. Heaven forbid that we ever have to figure out ways to survive without so much technology.

Becoming more self-reliant is not only smart, but potentially life-saving. Do something this year to be more self-reliant. Get those chickens you’ve been thinking about. Learn how to can or turn wheat into flour. Going back to the old ways of doing things just might prove beneficial.

23. Make a difference in someone’s life.

Finally, one of the most important resolutions you can accomplish this year is to make a difference in someone else’s life. Do your part to help clothe the naked, assist in the refugee assistance movement, or make a big difference in your little part of the world.

***

Choose one, three, or all 23. Work at your own pace and realize that many of these resolutions take a lifetime of effort to master. But no matter how many you try, I promise you’ll come away a better person for it. Happy New Year!

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*Thanks to Gap Factory and ShopStyle Collective for sponsoring this post! What a great sale going on right now!

I think we can all agree that Gap Factory has some of our favorite clothing for the whole family, and right now you’ll especially love Gap Factory Sale where almost everything is 50-70% off right now until 12/24 with code GFCHILL. In fact, to save you some time, we’ve hand-picked our VERY favorite items and deals so that you and your family can look fresh this holiday season.

With unbeatable deals on the most stylish items, you DON’T want to miss this!

14 Gap Factory Holiday Sale Goodies To Get the Whole Family Checked off Your List

1. The Iconic Denim Jacket

If there’s one jacket every woman should have, it’s this one. I’ve had my Gap Factory denim jacket since college and it is in my top 3 favorite clothing items of everything I own. Classic and goes with everything, I love throwing this on with leggings or a dress and it’s always a great look. Easy and affordable…this is a jacket you’ll love forever.

2. Puffer Vests for the Whole Fam

Another classic piece, Gap Factory has puffer vests for the whole family on amazing sale right now! These girls’ puffers are adorable and will keep kids cozy and warm (not to mention that amazing price!). And my boys would love this camo vest.

Looking for a cute family photo op? Make sure mom and dad have a puffer vest too! At this deal, you can afford to grab one for the whole fam.

3. Stunning Kids Parkas

When it comes to outerwear, you can’t beat Gap Factory for impressive style at an equally impressive price. Like this girls’ parka for example–isn’t it stunning? And this cold weather boys’ parka…perfect for a winter full of snowball fights.

4. Cozy Adult Parkas

And it wouldn’t be fair to grab the kids new coats without shopping around for yourself. I spotted this Cold Control Max parka in leopard print for half off–what a steal! And this men’s quilted puffer coat is so handsome and on a great deal. Love the color, especially love the length.

5. Family PJs

Winter wouldn’t be the same without a perfect pair of flannel pjs. Our family (like I’m sure many of yours) has a tradition of Christmas Eve family pajamas. Our kids look forward to it every single year. And you can’t beat the prices of these pajama separates and sets—makes your holiday budget spread so much further.

6. Sunday Best

It’s fun to get dressed up, especially around the holidays and this dress hands a little feminine chic to any occasion. So whether it’s Sunday services, a holiday party, a wedding, or family photos…Gap Factory is one of my favorite places to get my girls’ dresses.

7. Flattering Jeans

You really don’t need to spend a fortune to get a great pair of flattering jeans. These ones from Gap Factory check every box: great price, style, and quality. 

And when it comes to growing kids, Gap Factory boys’ and girls’ jeans are the best value for style your kids can rock.

8. All-Day Joggers

And for days you just can’t jean anymore, Gap Factory has some of the softest, coolest joggers in all colors of the rainbow that make you want to hang out all day long. 

9. Chillax with Your Man

If there’s one thing I love doing on a Saturday is sleeping in with my guy, getting a few things done around the house, and then heading out to a late breakfast in our sweats. These men’s joggers are a part of every guy’s dream Saturday and they’re a killer price!

10. Sherpa Lined Fleece

I think my kids wear zip-ups pretty much every day of the week in the winter. They’re a winter staple and with that cozy sherpa lining, kids never want to take them off. I love all of the fun styles for girls and for boys.

11. Kids Jean Jacket

A jean jacket on a kid is pretty much the cutest thing I’ve ever seen. Gap Factory has a GREAT inexpensive one that kids can layer and rock the block.

12. The Best Studio Joggers

If you want a high-end dupe jogger for a fraction of the price of boutique brands, this GapFit High Rise Studio Jogger is it. Soft, comfortable, and chic enough to wear to the gym or to lunch with friends, you can’t beat the price of this jogger!

13. Stocking {Stuffers}

My kids go through socks like crazy and Christmas seems like a great time each year to ask Santa to stick a few new pairs in their stockings. Gap Factory has some really cute socks for an awesome deal. I always grab a set for each of my four kids during this sale!

14. Family Sherpa

I think we’ve all fallen in love with Gap Factory Baby and this delicious sherpa jacket is no different. In fact, Gap Factory has the best sherpa collection for the whole family right now! Staying cozy doesn’t mean you need to sacrifice cuteness. 

So fly as fast as your fingers will take you to Gap Factory online where they have the most AMAZING sale going on right now! Cozy items for family game night, stylish pieces for holiday parties, or just well-loved clothes that they’ll wear time and again, and again, and again.

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Hello, Savanah of Bold Beautiful Life here again! Today I want to show you 3 ways to perfect a side braid.  Side braids are my go-to especially when I don’t have time to curl everything, or when my hair is not super clean.  Dirty hair actually gives my braids more texture and makes them easier to loosen without falling apart.  Play around with the different textures in your hair!

I love side braids! I like to mix and match them, so that is why I am showing you three different ways to do them.  You can wear them as I show in the video, or switch it up by doing half of one, and half of another.  Put your own spin on it!

The first side braid I’ll be showing is a pull through braid.  It is great for shorter hair, or hair with lots of layers.  The hair ties are all along it, so they help keep stray hairs in place.  It is also a perfect style for a workout, or active day.  I use it on my daughters hair and it still looks great at the end of the day!

The second side braid is a dutch braid.  I chose to show the dutch braid because it stands out so much.  I love to wear my side braids loose and pull them out to make them bigger and a little messy.  With the braid being inside out, this makes the braid more dramatic. This is also the fastest braid for me to do.  They all take a little practice though!

The third braid is my favorite! It is an inside out fishtail.  I love how dimensional it is! Make sure you are fishtailing first then adding in extra hair as you go.  It is shown more in the video.  This step is different than the other braids. Once you get in a rhythm with any of these styles, they get easier and easier.  Practice, practice!

Hope you enjoy 3 ways to perfect a side braid, and can start putting your own spin on them! I always love seeing your recreations, so feel free to tag @howdoesshe or @savanahpoulsen so we can see!

XO,

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New Years Eve Ideas

Are you getting ready?  Another holiday after yesterday’s holiday is coming up!  Hummm…how about a fast, CHEAP, last-minute idea for the New Year’s Eve celebration?  Not a lot of thought is required… promise.  On to New Years Eve Ideas.

NEW YEARS EVE IDEA

Items needed:

• balloons (12)
• 12 strips of paper
• 12 easy fast ideas…
• Easy things found around the house

Your kids will think you are cool.

Take the 12 strips of paper and write ideas on them.  Here are a few:

1. ‘Paint’ with shaving cream
2. Have a snowball fight
3. Eat a cookie
4. Read a story in front of the fireplace
5. Have a thumb war
6. Sing a song
7. Clean the bedroom (ya have to have one chore in there)
8. Balloon Volleyball
9. Drink hot chocolate with marshmallows.  YUM.
10. Call Grandma and wish her Happy New Years!
11. Turn on the music and dance like it’s 1999
12. Tell a favorite memory from 2010

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Roll up the strip and place it in the balloon.  Blow that sucker up and tape it to the wall.  Any wall will do…even on the top of family pictures (note: I covered up my kiddo’s pics with balloons.  They thought it was fun to discover who’s picture was under it.)

Write on the balloons a time starting at 1 pm and counting down to midnight.   On each hour have the kids pop a balloon and discover the ‘game’.

FUn.  FuN.

Note:  **Be careful with the balloons.  They can be a choking hazard for those little one who put things in their mouths.**    I know you know this, but just to sound like your mother I  thought I’d add it!

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**This post is sponsored by Carters, Afterpay and ShopStyle Collective. All opinions are my own!**

One of my true joys of the holiday season is dressing all 6 of my kids up in all the fun, festive, holiday attire! When we were first married (and on a very tight budget), I remember saving every penny to buy my little guy the most perfect holiday outfit to wear to church and Christmas parties. Now, 14 years later, and a few more kids, I’m still just as excited! My go-to store for all things holiday wear, and beyond, is Carter’s!

For years now, I’ve purchased all our matching Christmas PJ’s and holiday wear there, and this year was no exception! Where else can you find such darling option in such a wide range of sizes? Did you know Carter’s carries even things for tweens? IT’s true! Newborn to size 14, they have you covered! For now, all my kids are in this size range, and it makes my life so much easier to do one stop shopping. I can even find MATCHING holiday lines, which makes my heart so happy! 

Another great feature of Carter’s is their Afterpay option. Have you heard of Afterpay? It allows you to shop NOW, and pay for your purchases in 4 interest-free payments! Payments are due every 2 weeks. There’s no additional cost, as long as you pay on time! It’s really a great option if you don’t want to pay upfront, but would rather pay in smaller amounts, interest free. 

Want to see what I snagged for some of my kids this year? 



THE TWEEN

In my opinion, it can be difficult to find clothing for tweens. They’re just at this age where they’re in between kids and adults! I have been SO impressed by Carter’s tween lines. They now go up to size 14! Having 3 tweens myself, it’s been a game changer.

I mean, I was able to get my 12-year-old out of basketball shorts and into holiday gear! 
I’m feeling pretty awesome about that.

These are the best jeans! Tweens are always growing a TON, so I was happy to see that they still have adjustable waist options in this size range!
Cinch that waist up, or loosen it, and elongate the wear. As a mom, knowing that I can get more bang for my buck is awesome!

We paired the jeans with a fun graphic tee. He isn’t a huge fan of “dressing up” so this was the perfect compromise. Still festive, but comfortable. 
And who isn’t “Team Santa”?



THE KID
This spunky little blonde 5-year-old has become very opinionated about her attire lately.
That’s why I was thrilled SHE was thrilled with this darling poncho and legging combo.
And I have to be honest, I want it in my size – candy canes and all!



This poncho style sweater has arm sleeves, and you can wear it alone, or pair it with a long sleeve t-shirt underneath if you need some added warmth.
The leggings are so dang cute! Can you even with those candy canes? 
All of it fit true to size – another reason I love Carter’s. It seems like their sizing is always right on!



Carter’s also has a great selection of shoes!
These little black flats added just a touch of sparkle and can be dressed up or down!

THE TODDLER

If I could have a toddler forever, I would! Is there anything more darling than a 2-year-old in his/her holiday best? 
I think not.
Meet my little Christmas elf. 

Could you just die over those boots and suspenders?

He was much more interested in playing with his suspenders than taking pictures.
(And yes, he has a mullet. Ask my husband about that one.)

The jeans, suspenders, and shirt actually all come as a set HERE! It’s nice to have everything in one, and the price is amazing when you think you’re getting 3 different items!

See what I mean?
Cutest kid clothing EVER, and lots of fantastic prices. This is why Carter’s is a constant go-to for me!
Do you see a lot you want to snag for a little one in your life?
Do it!
Don’t forget about the awesome option of using Afterpay**, if you don’t want to pay all at once!

Happy Shopping!

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Thank you KiwiCo for sponsoring this post and for giving our readers 50% off their first crate (including the NEW Yummy Crate!) with code HOWDOESSHE.

When I was a kid, my family of seven became very creative about living on a very small budget. My mom’s number one job was to raise us five kids and my dad worked 40 hours a week at a blue collar job. I wouldn’t change a second of my childhood. Our meager circumstances were a priceless opportunity to be resourceful. 

We didn’t get the cool, expensive toys I saw on TV commercials. Instead, we became experts at creating our own toys out of odds and ends we rounded up around the house. I remember making robots out of nuts, bolts, and empty toilet paper tubes. Without even knowing it, my siblings and I were living the STEAM life. 

Because of my childhood, I encourage my kids to get creative any chance I get. Creating our own fun taught us to be problem solvers and creative thinkers–skills that have carried me far into adulthood. And that’s one of the biggest reasons I love KiwiCo Crates and STEAM kits. They give my kids a chance to build their own toys, learn about how things work, and put their brains in motion as they play.

And now, KiwiCo just released a brand NEW Yummy Crate–the newest addition to their subscription line (they have 9 total now!) and I’m so excited about it!

The Yummy Crate is designed to spark a love for science and cooking in kids ages 6-14 and it springboards into a lot of hands-on experimentation in the kitchen. (I’ve even learned A LOT about chemical reactions in cooking that are fascinating! You really can learn something new everyday.)

The Yummy Crate is HERE and 3 Reasons Kids LOVE it!

1. Kids love cooking.

If your kids are like mine, they love to be right there with me in the kitchen whenever I’m making anything. Kids love the hands-on nature of cooking and with the new Kiwi Yummy Crate, they get to be the master chef. 

What comes in the Yummy Crate: 

• 3 delicious family-friendly recipe cards that teach kids valuable science and cooking skills. (Our Tasty and Toasty kit came with the recipes for yummy burgers, crispy chicken strips, and golden smashed potatoes). 
• 2 fun hands-on STEAM activities (ours came with activities to create your own restaurant. The kids had so much fun building a menu.)
• A Grownup Guide: This tells you what ingredients you’ll need to get.

*What doesn’t come in the Yummy Crate: the ingredients. Your Yummy crate doesn’t come with ingredients so that you can customize to your family’s preference and dietary restrictions.

Get 50% off your first KiwiCo Yummy Crate (or any crate!) with code HOWDOESSHE.

2. They can create their own restaurant.

KiwiCo Crates come in 1, 3, 6, or 12-month options. You can try a crate once, or get the best deal and jump on a flexible subscription plan. My kids love that every month they get to play restaurant.

They practically wait by the door for their Yummy Crate to hit the cement, then they’re tearing into it and planning their new restaurant.

You get the ingredients and then let the fun begin.  

3. You learn cool things about food.

In this particular kit, my kids learned about the Maillard reaction when meat meets a temperature of 140 to 165 degrees Celsius and causes browning. It’s so fun learning the why behind the how. It makes cooking (and eating) much more interesting and meaningful. 

Like I said, I’ve learned a lot through my kids’ Yummy crate. So cool!

Each Yummy Crate will teach you cool scientific facts, history, and fun tidbits that you never knew before about your favorite foods. And as a mom, I love that it encourages my picky eaters to try new things.

Three Fun Yummy Crates To Try

While the first Yummy Crate we tried was the Tasty & Toasty, we can’t wait to try the others:

• Tasty & Toasty- Hands-on savory family favorites
• Rise & Shine- Fun breakfast foods
• Bright & Delightful- Colorful fruit and veggie inspired dishes and snacks

You grab the ingredients, then let the fun begin

Yummy Crates don’t come with ingredients so that you can modify to your family’s preferences. After grabbing a few simple grocery items (many you may already have on hand), your kids can get busy cooking up some fun and tasty treats for the whole family. They love the responsibility and I love having foods that my kids will eat.

Kiwi crates and kits make the BEST activities for families. They’re one of my favorite gifts to surprise my own kids as well as friends and cousins during the year. Shop single crates from KiwiCo’s Store (there are some REALLY fun ones in there that my kids have gone nuts over!) or give the gift of learning with a monthly subscription.

Go take a look at their fabulous sets and holiday projects that help kids get creative while they play and get HALF OFF your first KiwiCo crate with code HOWDOESSHE at checkout.

If I learned anything from my childhood, it’s that invention can take you far.

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Thanks to CurrentBody for sponsoring this post. Our review of this CurrentlBody Skin LED Mask is 100% our own opinion. This is a botox alternative that everyone needs to know about. (Make sure you get the exclusive promo below.)

I’ll never forget the morning of my first wrinkle–I thought I’d slept on my face wrong and kept waiting for it to vanish. I rubbed and moisturized but by lunchtime, that line by my smile was still there and that’s when I realized it wasn’t going away.

That same year I started to notice a significant change in my skin–fine lines, dull skin, and more wrinkles. And as my friends all began getting botox, I wondered, “Is this it? Is this my life from here on out?”

So I got botox like everyone else. But when they handed me the bill of $300 and a return appointment card for just three months later I was incredulous. Am I supposed to do this regularly? How was I going to justify spending $1,200 or MORE annually? There had to be a different way.

A Botox Alternative That is Making Waves

I went to work researching botox alternatives. Since I’d just used CurrentBody’s at-home permanent hair removal device, I noticed they also had an LED Light Therapy Mask that was getting rave reviews in the beauty world. I decided to try it out and here’s what happened.

 What is LED Light Therapy?

Maybe you’ve noticed, but as you age, your skin can lose 20-80% of it’s thickness and elasticity. I started seeing noticeable differences in my 30s. 

LED light therapy uses safe red and infrared lights to help your body produce more collagen and elastin and tackle the signs of aging. It works with your body…like giving your skin a super power. The CurrentBody Skin LED Light Therapy Mask is a UK-made device and one of the best on the market. It caught my eye because it’s been awarded the winner of the Cosmopolitan Beauty Awards, among several other top awards. 

It’s a mask that you put around your face that emits warming red and infrared lights clinically proven to reduce the signs of aging. This extremely high quality-crafted gadget uses professional technology found in clinics and salons around the world, now available for the everyday person to use in the comfort of their own home. This is amazing news for you and I!

What does the CurrentBody Skin LED Mask do?

It rejuvenates your skin with the power of light. Clinically proven, and FDA-approved, this device is 100% safe to use. With no harmful UV rays and just a gentle warming sensation, the CurrentBody LED Mask has been proven to reduce wrinkles by 35% in just 4 weeks. Here are some other cool benefits:

• Improves your skin tone
• Firms up your skin
• Stimulates collagen and elastin production in your skin
• Improves blood flow and tissue oxygenation through a process called photobiomodulation which helps your skin cells absorb nourishing skin products more effectively.
• 95% of users reported improved tone, texture, tightness, and firmness.

How do you use it?

First of all, you have to make it part of your routine. And the good news is…it’s so easy to do that! One of my favorite things about this mask is how incredibly convenient it is.

I’ll admit, when I opened up the box I thought, “Wow, this thing is crazy!” 

But after reading the very simple instructions, I was impressed with the way CurrentBody made anti-aging so effortless.

First: Charge the device for 6 hours, then it’s ready to use! (It’s rechargable…just plug it into the wall and you can use it on repeat for years to come. A full charge typically lasts me a few weeks or more.)

Next: Make sure your face is freshly washed and exfoliated. Attach the velcro strap to the mask and fit the mask to your head.

Last: Find a comfy place, press on the button, and chill out for 10 minutes while your face gets a nice warming. (I experienced zero pain or discomfort with this mask. In fact, it’s very soothing and relaxing.) The device automatically turns off after 10 minutes. Finish up your skincare routine with a serum and/or moisturizer, and that’s it…you’re done!

Do this 3-5 times a week as part of your regular skincare routine for best results. 

What results can you expect?

I’ve been using my CurrentBody Skin LED Mask for a little over 4 weeks now. I can honestly say that it’s become one of my favorite parts of the day. In just four weeks I’ve noticed that my skin looks and feels more vibrant and I absolutely LOVE it! Here are some other things I’ve noticed:

• The acne I usually get before my period never came. Coincidence? I don’t think so. I’m going to keep using the mask to test out my theory.
• Some of my dark spots have started to fade. Sunspots and age spots are a lot less noticeable, which is such a relief.
• My skin tone has evened out and I love it!

A Price That Makes Sense

Getting light treatments and botox at a clinic can get expensive. If you are looking for something you can do in the comfort of your own home that gives you the same salon results for a dramatically less expensive price, this LED Mask is it. 

And right now, you can get an extra 25% off with code HDSCBSKIN. This is a crazy low price you don’t want to miss out on–saves you almost $100!

So whether you use it as a botox alternative, or in addition to your skincare routine, this device is one that will pay for itself. You’ll love the results and feel like you’re getting the skin of your 20s again! Even my husband is asking to use it. 

It’s easy, a seamless part of your routine, and will quickly become one of your favorite parts of the day. Find a quiet place, press on, and just relax as LED light therapy does it’s magic.

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 I can always use a little help when it comes to organizing, how about you? Since it’s almost time for cleaning up all the fun Christmas decorations, I thought it would be great to scour the internet and find some great Christmas storage tips to help us all out!  YES!

1. Put those Beaded Garlands in a drink container for a no tangle solution.

2. Use clear boxes and labels to make setting up a breeze!

3. You can fill up those gallon sized baggies with ornaments and they will all fit in your storage tote!

4. Another great ornament storage solution is to use your empty egg cartons. Here.

 5. Keep your lights untangled with this great idea! Here.

 6.  Have a bunch of garland or outdoor Christmas decor? Try storing in a clean trash bin!

7.  Ever wonder what to do with the adorable Christmas cards?  Put them on a ring to enjoy each year!

8. Or put them in a scrapbook with these adorable free downloads!

 9. No reason to pay the big bucks for expensive ornament containers, try this DIY option instead!

10. Making your own organizing divisions will save you money and keep your decorations nice and neat!

11. Here’s another great idea for organizing those ornaments  – with a large tub and a couple rods.  Genius!

 12. Put each strand of lights in its own Ziplock Bag.  Prevents a big tangled mess!

 What’s your favorite way to organize your Christmas storage?  I’d love to hear about it in the comments.  For more organizing tips check out our pinterest board about all things organizing here!

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Ideas to Simplify Christmas – It’s Never Too Late

Let’s simplify Christmas, shall we? Sometimes Christmas season feels like a runaway train. You’re on it. It’s going somewhere. Maybe you love trains. But this out-of-control ride can leave you exhausted and feeling like there is no escape. You have to make the chocolates, the hand-made Christmas cards won’t make themselves, and your presence is required at five Christmas parties this Saturday. There’s no choice, right?

The good news is, even at this advanced stage of the Christmas season, you can still scale back. It may be a runaway train, but you have access to the emergency brake. Here are a few ways to use it over the next two weeks. Do what it takes to make Christmas a time of peace and love for your family.

For each of these areas below, make a list of all the things you plan to do between now and December 25th. Light a jolly candle, sip some hot cocoa, and start crossing off anything that stresses you out or makes you wish you could Grinchishly stop Christmas from coming.

1. Decorations –

I’ve heard several people lament recently, “I haven’t decorated for Christmas yet,” or, “Our tree isn’t even up!” Well, this year for Christmas I decided to decorate – ‘Drops of Awesome’ style. Rather than pulling out all the decorations and turning my house into ground zero of a green and red tornado, I stacked the boxes of decorations in my garage and pulled out one candle, one plastic elf, and one fabric wreath at a time. My thought was, If I only get two things up this year, that’s okay.

Buy a wreath at the grocery store and slap it on your door instead of hanging Christmas lights.

Decorate your tree with a couple of strings of lights and leave the ornaments in their boxes until next year. Or let your kids decorate it themselves and every time you see unsightly clumps of ornaments, let it remind you of how much time you didn’t spend dressing the tree meticulously.

2. Concerts, Parties, and Events –

“No” is a word. You can use it. I think I’m invited to more parties, concerts, recitals, and events in the month of December than the rest of the year combined. And I want to go to almost all of them. I like fun, I like friends, and I really like chocolate. However, sometimes you get enough great things stacked together and they lose their charm, like a house full of 2-year-olds. One or two are adorable. A flock of toddlers is insanity.

So it is with Christmas events. Choose a few that will bring you the most joy, express your regrets to the hosts of the others, and stay home some nights wearing a smoking jacket and listening to Bing Crosby albums.

3. Traditions –

“But we have to do it. We do it every year!” Well, not this year. You can start a new tradition any time. But did you know you can also stop one or decide it should only be done every five years when the wind is from the east and the stars are aligned perfectly? “We did it last year,” is a terrible reason to do something.

Be thoughtful with your celebrations. Are you “supposed” to make a gingerbread house tomorrow? Would you be happier or less stressed if you weren’t scouring every grocery store in town looking for the cutest candy ever? Pull the plug.

4. Simplify Christmas Cards –

If you don’t get around to sending Christmas cards this year, it’s okay. I know this will hurt to hear, but – most people probably won’t notice. Maybe send a note to your Grandma or your dad if you know it will mean a lot to them. Then consider sending a cute note or family update to a few more people for Valentine’s Day or Easter when your head is no longer exploding.

5. Gifts and Treats –

It’s the middle of December. Do you still have big plans for making homemade gifts? Ideally you would have finished these weeks ago so you could spend this month drinking nog and singing carols. Don’t stay up all night sewing or hot gluing and growling because you are doing something you chose to do. Do not swear at your kids for stealing your fabric scissors. Definitely DO pack up all the supplies and put a reminder on your calendar to start making them next July.

I have fabric and notions and a pattern ready to make these really cute sewing bags for my mother and mother-in-law for Christmas last year, no, Mother’s Day, no, Christmas this year, no, Mother’s Day 2016. Whenever they get those bags, they will love them. They might even love them more if they knew I wasn’t bashing my head against the sewing machine while I slaved over them. Good news – the fabric never expires!

6. Gift Wrap –

Do you love spending hours wrapping gifts, matching plaids and pressing perfect corners? Cool. Will you come over and wrap mine too? If not, roll the sweater up and tie a bow around it. Stop by the dollar store and pick up a bunch of Christmas gift bags and tissue paper and drop your gifts into them. Order your gifts pre-wrapped from Amazon. They won’t look amazing but they will look easy and that’s almost as good.

7. Elf on the Shelf –

Did you start elfing this year only to wake up last night at 1 am with the terrible realization that you forgot to spill chocolate chips all over your floor or unroll an entire roll of toilet paper in the name of the elf so you need to get out of your warm bed and play dolls in the name of Christmas joy?

If you’re d.o.n.e. with the elf for the year, send him on vacation, leaving a note to the kids about his whereabouts. Maybe tell them that Santa called all the elves home to help with reindeer training. Consider injuring him and leaving a note that says he’s on Santa-ordered bedrest for the next two weeks as suggested by one mom on Facebook this week.

8. Lists –

As you simplify, you may find that there are several things you’re sad about missing out on this year. Soften the blow by making a list of gifts, activities, and treats you want to do or make next year. Then enter it on your calendar to look over in early fall.

Don’t spend the next two weeks complaining about being the victim of your own scheduling choices.

Do less this year.

Love more.

Ideas to Simplify Christmas – It’s never too late.

We want to help you simplify your Christmas with some of our favorite shortcuts and simple solutions for the Holidays:

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How to Make Snow

Do you have snow?! I don’t. Sniffle. I’ve been dreaming of a white Christmas but, here in the South, that’s just down right wishful thinking. I was just starting to feel REALLY sorry for myself and, more importantly, my kids, when Chickabug emailed a brilliant idea. With a couple of simple ingredients, and a ridiculously adorable printable, we had a “Can of Snow”! Imported Fresh from the North Pole, I might add.  So on with the How to Make Snow tutorial.

Don’t you want to touch it?! My kids couldn’t keep their hands off the stuff. I kept having to remind them to move their hands so I could take pictures!

So, how do you make this glorious faux snow?

With 2/3 KOSHER salt, 1/3 cornstarch, and glitter until magical. 

  Get those anxious little fingers mixing! Good luck getting them to stop. The texture is so fun!

Fill the cans!

After your kids are done playing with it, (this could be hours), fill your “Can of Snow”. You can get these empty quart-size paint cans for about $2 at any home improvement store.

  Hammer down the lid good and tight.

 Make sure you add a paint can opener. It’s part of the fun! You can get them free at home improvement stores. Just ask for them when you are purchasing your paint cans. 

The back includes a witty ingredients list, and directions. There is a “TO: FROM:”  This is, by far, the coolest present ever.

I basically had to rip this can out of the little girl’s hands to put it in the freezer. (Make sure you just chill your faux snow. Freezing it for hours could cause moisture build up and ruin your cute printable.)

  Once it has chilled, get ready for some fun. Have a snow fight (not in the house!), decorate the windowsill, or gift it to friends.

My kids can’t wait to deliver these cans. Heck, I can’t wait either! It’s pretty magical.

Note:  This “Can of Snow” is imported fresh from the North Pole. But it may taste like salt if you eat it, so… don’t.

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Thank you UpWest for sponsoring this post! We love your cool, comfy winter clothes keeping us cozy no matter where we are.

Winter looks different depending on where you live and where you’ll be, but one thing is for sure, we all want to get comfy. Whether you’re snuggled up in front of a fireplace like I am here in Idaho, or taking walks on the beach in San Diego like our contributor Missy and her daughter. This season’s UpWest new arrivals are more stunning and comfortable than ever.

Here are my top UpWest picks this month that will look and feel amazing on the slopes of Colorado or the piers of New England. Layer as you wish for wherever you happen to call home.

Make sure to use code COMFORT25 for an additional 25% off your order!

The Top 12 Comfy Winter Clothes for Wherever You May Be

The thing I love about UpWest clothes is that they are the easiest to take wherever you go. I’ve traveled with my favorite pieces from the National Parks of Southern Utah to the cool beaches of the Oregon Coast. My UpWest sweatshirts, sweaters, and joggers are the ones I grab from the top of my pile time and again, they’re that good. I love traveling with them, I love hanging out at home in them, and I love working out in UpWest clothes.

You’ll see for yourself when you slip on that special piece that grabs your eye. 

1. The Flannel Dress That Stole My Heart

This button down flannel dress is the same one Ellie is wearing in San Diego above and it is just as lovely on the beach as it is at church. And it’s on the sweetest markdown right now and looks incredible with a statement pair of boots.

2. Cropped Puffer Coat

This has to be one of the most gorgeous coats I’ve seen this season. Stay cozy while hunting for that perfect Christmas tree or bundle up with a cup of hot cocoa in your hands. This cropped coat comes in two great colors that go with everything in your wardrobe.

3. Long Maxi Puffer Coat

Ultra long coats are all the rage right now and for good reason. This cozy Stadium Puffer Jacket is the next best thing to being wrapped in a soft sherpa blanket. With lots of great pockets to store your keys and gloves, this deluxe coat will last you years and years to come.

4. Waffle Knit Sweater Dress

When it comes to chic winter clothes, turn heads at your holiday parties with this stunning waffle knit dress you’ll never want to take off. UpWest excels at pieces that are amazingly comfortable and chic at the same time so that you can wear them out on the town or home for a cozy night in.

5. Unwind Fleece Joggers

I am a complete joggers addict and these super soft unwind joggers are full fleece goodness. With perfect pockets and a comfy fit, you can hit the slopes and then head to the lodge to unwind in style. These joggers are on markdown right now and come in 7 colors.

6. Tulip Back Sweater

UpWest has so many great new sweater arrivals, but this one caught my eye. I love the delicate tulip back and the soft cotton material that reminds me of my favorite beanie. And the detailing on those wrists and thumb is just special.

7. All-Day Straight Leg Denim

If you haven’t noticed, loose denim is so hot right now and that transitions nicely to winter clothes. I love the buttons on these straight leg cut jeans and the loose fit is comfy and not restricting.

8. Favorite Waffle Henley

This henley is smoking hot. It’s one of those understated tops that is so sexy while still being versatile enough to go anywhere or do anything in. The hardest decision you’ll have is choosing between colors. 

9. Sherpa Pullover

I live in Idaho where you can count on it being cold about six months of the year. Pullovers like this half-zip sherpa are an absolute heaven-send. They are the best to throw on when the thermostat isn’t as high as you’d like it. (My hubby likes it cold, I like it toasty.) You’ll be comfy and warm in this super-soft essential.

10. Crewneck Pocket Sweater

The balloon sleeves steal the show in this feminine crewneck sweater. I love the subtle speckle detail in the super soft fabric. This sweater is a winner for the winter months.

11. Buffalo Plaid Button-Up

One of my most favorite prints is the buffalo plaid and every woman needs to have a buffalo button-up in her lineup. This oversized boyfriend version makes you want to pull on an extra high pair of socks and whip up some pancakes in the morning.

12. Plaid Sherpa Pullover

Half zip pullovers are the best to have in the winter and the fuzzier the better. Bring on the freezing temps, whether they be outside on the snowy slopes or inside a movie theatre with the AC blasting. I always have a pullover handy for whatever situation I’m headed into. 

So whether you’re in sunny California this winter or skating frozen ponds in Vermont, make sure to pack some of these cozy winter essentials in your bag.

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**This post is sponsored by Zulily and ShopStyle. All opinions are my own.**

It’s officially December and every December 1st, I feel the pressure.
Pressure to get JUST the right gifts for everyone on my list.
From my mom, to my hubby, to each of my 6 kids, gift buying can be a little overwhelming.
(Especially when my 7year old wants to write a new letter to Santa, literally daily!)

That’s where Zulily steps in. Each day, Zulily has some of the best prices on new items! I love waking up each morning and checking to see what treasures they have that day. They have popular name brands, but also more unique items! Plus, it’s one stop shopping as they have everything from toys to home decor.
Did you know if you make a purchase on Friday, you get free shipping for the rest of the weekend? Pretty cool.
Right now, look for that little red gift in the corner of each item.
That means, it will arrive by Christmas!

I put together 14 gifts for everyone on your list.
I even found the perfect gift for your tweens!

Fur Slippers:  The mornings are officially freezing around here, and walking around barefoot isn’t as appealing as it used to be. Spoil someone you love with these luxurious fur lined slippers. A great gift for someone that needs a little spoiling!

Farmhouse play kitchen: In my opinion, every kid needs a play kitchen at least once in their childhood. I love the style of this simple, yet modern, set. The gold details just take it to a whole new level! I think this may be nicer than MY kitchen, and the price is fantastic too!

Cozy Socks: It might seem generic, but cozy socks are always come in clutch. Stick them in a stocking or pair them with a gift card for a teacher. Everyone needs them and these are just a little more special. 

Melissa and Doug Car Hauler:  I’m always happy with Melissa and Doug toys. They are all wooden and seem to last forever. This car hauling semi is one that has lasted through 6 of my kids! It’s great quality and my kids have all played with it! Great gift for a little one!

Poke A Dot book:  I discovered Poke A Dot books a few years ago, and wish I had sooner. Think fidget popper meets toddler book. They are interactive and little kids LOVE them. We own multiple!

Water WOW books:  These paint books change colors with just water AND they are reusable! They are perfect for road trips or waiting at the doctor’s office. I love all the different themes. I’m eyeing that Paw Patrol version for a certain 2-year-old in our house. 

Llama craft set:  These craft DIY sets are always a big hit with the tween crowd. It’s fun to create! Not to mention, can you ever go wrong with LLAMAS? I think not.

Sherpa Jacket:  For the fashionista in your life, this sherpa jacket is perfection. Sherpa is everywhere this season, and not only is it stylish, it’s also practical and warm. This jacket comes in 3 colors and is offered in extended sizing too!

Sequin beanie:   Looking for something to add a little bling in your life? I thought this sparkly beanie was so fun! It would be perfect for any outdoor New Year’s activities as well. 

CC Beanie: If you prefer a less flashy accessory, these CC beanies are THE BEST. I own several and they are just superb quality! They come in tons of colors, and various styles. Plus, they fit everyone so you don’t have to worry about sizing issues like you would clothing. 

Outdoor Giant Bouncer: My son saw this on my screen and squealed. Tell me this doesn’t look amazing and fun!!! I can just picture all my kids on it at once, giggling and laughing. Definitely a link you should consider sending grandma and grandpa.

Hogsmeade Lego set:  Legos are always a TOP seller during the holiday season. It seems like almost everyone has at least one kid with them adorning his/her list. This set is a whole other level of awesomeness. Harry Potter always is! You can build Hogsmeade. Perfect for a Harry Potter fan or any Lego fan.
Zulily has lots of different Lego sets at great prices HERE. 

Apple watch: If you have a little more budget for a spouse or loved one, an Apple watch is a seriously desired gift. These are refurbished, but don’t let that frighten you away! I have purchased several refurbished electronics and never had an issue. This is such a fantastic price, you just can’t go wrong. 

Sports Attire: Do you spy YOUR favorite team? Team gear and attire is always something that gets used, PLUS I feel like it’s a little more personalized since you can pick just the right team!

See what I mean? So many gift ideas at fantastic price points. I love that Zulily really is one stop shopping!
Hurry and start checking off that list so you can relax, and enjoy the holiday moments with the people you’re buying for!

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