Emotional Badass

Your intelligence can become an anxiety machine. The same sensitive mind that reads a room and anticipates consequences can build a convincing case for worry, and call that worry wise. I’ve watched highly sensitive people write worst case scenario dissertations while refusing to accept that anxiety is part of having a nervous system. Accepting it is actually what reduces it, ...

Going no contact with family is a fracture, a splitting off from the vine you came from, and I will never casually encourage it. Many sensitive people who believe they are setting boundaries are still bargaining, explaining and pleading with relatives who do not value understanding. I share the questions to ask before you decide, and some of my own personal story, so you can ...

If you were raised in chaos, the first boundary you need may be one nobody taught you, which is permission to have a limit. Many of us became undercover lawyers, building a courtroom case for every no, because no one showed us that no is a complete thought. We are humans with limited capacity, and I ask what happens to our humanity when we push past it. No one else can give y...

If it feels like the world has changed around you, you aren't crazy. We're highly sensitive people living in a culture that runs on speed and scale, like a computer from 1995 running modern software, so of course we're worn out. You're allowed to see what has changed, and you don't have to gaslight yourself into calling it all progress. Our minds are still ours to manage, so ...