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The Brain Is Not Always Chasing Sex — Sometimes It Is Chasing Recognition Apart from the physical sensation of pleasure, sex, at its deepest level, can also carry an emotional …

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A Sexual Act Is Not a Full Identity There is a common mistake people make when discussing sexuality. They treat a sexual act as if it were the same thing …

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While some men are perceived as embodying society’s classic ideals of manhood — tall, muscular, athletic, affluent, or socially dominant — these standards can feel unattainable to many others. The …

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In close-knit Black queer communities, triangulation refers to a manipulative strategy where a person avoids resolving an issue directly with someone and instead pulls a third party—or several third parties—into …

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Content note: This article discusses social manipulation, sex, reputational harm, police involvement, intoxication, racism, sexual shame, and friendship betrayal. Names and identifying details have been changed or withheld. This is …

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