Divorce Minister

20 A bruised reed he will not break,     and a smoldering wick he will not snuff out, till he has brought justice through to victory. 21     In his name the nations will put their hope.” -Matthew 12:20-21, NIV Crushed versus Crusher A pastoral error frequently made when handling infidelity cases is treating both parties the sa...

“I’d forgive her even if she cheated on me,” says Faithful Husband. “You’d just hold that over her head forever,” says Cheater Apologist. Some disordered people only view relationships through the lens of power and leverage. Such response tells you everything you need to know about their “kingdom” alliance. They could care less about godliness …

Recently, I ran across this Gospel new release. It has good lyrics warning us about influences that might outwardly look good but are bad for us. The whole song struck me as especially applicable for faithful spouses dealing with religious cheaters or cheater supporters. Plus, it speaks to the spiritual abusive programming going on between …

36 And Gideon said unto God, “If thou wilt save Israel by mine hand, as thou hast said, 37 Behold, I will put a fleece of wool in the floor; and if the dew be on the fleece only, and it be dry upon all the earth beside, then shall I know that thou wilt save Israel …

12 The hired hand is not the shepherd and does not own the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. -John 10:12, NIV Sometimes being a good pastor means being a good shepherd and protecting the sheep from wolves. …