Bare Marriage

Many of us are starting from scratch with parenting.

We were raised in James Dobson, authoritarian type households, and we know we don’t want that for our children.

But we also look around at so many of the parenting trends today, and it seems as if there aren’t any boundaries, an...

There’s been a big uptick lately of men especially on social media accusing us of having biased research in our study of 20,000 women.

I don’t normally address these issues from the blog, because, quite frankly, our work speaks for itself.

We did the largest study of evangel...

A funny thing happened last week for Mother’s Day.

The Gospel Coalition, a rather mainstream evangelical organization founded by the late Tim Keller and having entirely male leadership, published

The Billy Graham Rule sexualizes everyone–and isn’t biblical.

There’s nothing in the Bible that says that we can’t have healthy relationships with our brothers and sisters in Christ, and much that says the opposite. But the evangelical church has been obsessed with enforcing the B...

Recovery from obligation sex begins with understanding autonomy and consent.

It begins with understanding it was never God’s will for one person to use someone else’s body for their own pleasure/emotional coping mechanism, without consideration of what this was doing to the other person....